OAK:Tarot of Love and Romance

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Symbol- young woman's lover is killed at her feet. She is made captive by victor

Meaning- entrapment


He is generating a full supply of emotional energy and absorbing all of her excess emotional energy. As it combines with his energy he gains the ability to astral project and have astral adventures. He is able to sustain an astral body at will.

He has the ability to do dream work. This means that during his dreams he is able to alter the outcome. His dreams represent his potential future and by altering these dreams he is able to alter his future. He takes an active role in trying to astrally contact the girl he is interested in and gets more of her emotional energy. As he does this he alters the astral events she has created into events that are more to his liking. They are not working together.

She is trying to astrally draw her ideal mate to her. Her ideal mate is a lot like her and they have many things in common. Her friend is trying to destroy this future and draw her to himself instead. They are in conflict about what they are trying to accomplish.

As these astral events progress she finds the man of her dreams and falls in love but her old friend ruins the relationship for her. If not in the physical world he is trying to change it in the astral world.

She has already created the future she wants and is trapped within the very thing she has created. It has become a part of the collective and she no longer has the ability to alter it. She can't defend the future she has created and watches helplessly as her dreams fall apart into ruins through his alterations.

He knows she is the perfect person for him. She is everything that he is not. She is his soulmate, his missing half. He will do anything, fight anyone to win her love. He is frustrated with her refusal of him and his desire drives him to try pressuring her into a relationship. He won't take anything else for an answer. She is beginning to feel afraid. She has no desire to have a deeper relationship with him but the shear force of his personality is impossible to resist. He is too powerful for her and he drives off the one she really loves.

She feels herself sucked into this nightmare relationship helplessly against her will. She is completely at his mercy.

Male experience:

She is the perfect one for him and he will convince her of it no matter how hard she resists. Sooner or later she must realize they are meant to be together. He absorbs all of her excess emotional energy and his dreams become vivid and realistic. He has dreams about her with another man and he fights this man in astral battles to win her back.

He is fighting back in his dreams and changes the outcome of them. Each time he confronts a problem in his dreams and defeats it he feels a gain in power. He is creating the type of life he wants to live by astrally fighting for it.

Female experience:

She has created the astral future she desires and it has become part of the collective. She is trapped within the version of her future that the collective gives her. She is forced to watch in horror as the dream life that she astrally created is torn apart piece by piece.

Instead of being drawn toward the one she loves she is helplessly enmeshed in a relationship with someone she doesn't love.

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Symbol- shotgun wedding

Meaning- seduction

The Astral Planes merge downward and pour a blessing of love and light onto the initiate in a spiritual baptism. He or she is unable to contain the star within the body and it bursts forth in all of its glory. This is a realization of the Christ Spirit and marks the beginning of the higher initiation.

It signals a sprouting and rapid growth of the soul body. He is generating more emotional energy and it is difficult for him. He feels he is pouring out his entire soul in his effort to find the perfect woman. He is at the edge of his mind. His intellect has been telling him that he is wasting his time and will never find someone. In spite of his intellectual doubts he continues searching and searching, generously giving away his energy with no return. Just as he feels that he can give no more he has the incredible experience of absorbing some of her pure emotional energy. It is a spiritual baptism that surrounds him in waves of light and love. The energy he has given out has found a way back to him.

He might not realize the energy came from her. It could be that he believes it was a beautiful spiritual experience. In any case he wants more of those experiences and doesn't know how to get them.

This is known as the baptism of the Holy Spirit in some traditions and it triggers an intense desire to generate incredible amounts of emotional energy in the hopes of repeating it.

By this time she has absorbed enough of his emotional energy and used it to create the potential future she wants for herself and for him. To him this could mean he is doomed to a life of mediocrity like everyone else he knows. He has big plans and won't settle for less than the best of life.

She has no need of her excess emotional energy and freely gives it to him as pure emotional energy. He absorbs this energy from her for the first time and it is a very important time for him. At first he can't use this energy. It remains trapped in his physical body to be released at night as astral energy that develops his soul.

He uses this energy to open up emotional channels within his body. He learns to integrate this energy so it is not congested in the heart and solar plexus. Over time this energy works its way downward to become a fully activated astral body.

Male experience:

His ego is screaming that he is making a fool of himself. He has been giving and giving of his time and energy without getting anything in return. He has tried to hold himself to the high goal of finding the perfect woman but she doesn't seem to exist anywhere.

Just when he has given up in defeat he receives a burst of pure female emotional energy that envelops him in an aura of spiritual light and love. It is a spiritual experience and inspires him to generate more emotional love energy. This allows him to build up a permanent astral body.

Female experience:

She enjoys having him around because he gives her energy to help her through the day. She dreams of someday meeting the right person. She thinks about who would be right for her and who would be right for him. He is a nice person and he should have somebody nice too.

The time comes when she knows exactly the type of life she wants and the type of man she wants to share it with. She creates it in the astral as her potential future. Satisfied with that she gives the rest of her excess emotional energy freely away to him as pure emotional energy.

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Symbol- Secretary attracted to lumberjack.

Meaning- Attraction


He is giving away emotional energy but she is taking it as fast as he can give it away. It seems that he isn't getting anywhere and is always emotionally drained. He feels conflict between love of her and love of self. It seems to him that giving is fine but at some point his efforts should be rewarded. He becomes more interested in having a serious relationship that has give and take. He is getting tired of giving all the time without getting anything back.

His logic and reason distort things. He doesn't understand why he can't find that perfect someone to complete his life. No one is returning energy back to him. He is attracted to women that have qualities he is lacking in. This is how he hopes to bring those things into his life. His supply of emotional energy is almost gone and he feels empty inside. He is looking for someone to fill that emptiness. He is trying to fulfill the male role and he wants someone to play the female role that is so important. It is frustrating when he finds out the type of woman he is attracted to is not attracted to him and doesn't return his attentions.

She absorbs his emotional energy as fast as he can give it away. She mixes it with her growing amount of emotional energy to form astral emotional energy. In her dreams and astral adventures she uses this astral energy to construct her potential future and his potential future.

This energy is deposited in the astral planes and combines to create a potential future that will be accepted by the collective. In doing this it alters to adapt to societal pressures. The potential future she has created merges with everything else and represents the collective will of humanity.

Areas of disagreement or conflicting interests combine and form compromise events. Once an event has reached this level of the astral it is very difficult for the male to alter because he is pitting his will against the collective will of society. At this point she enjoys comfort and security in a relationship and would like to get involved with someone that shares her likes and interests. Although she is absorbing his energy and likes him as a friend, he is not the type of person she would ever get serious with. They are too different!

Male experience:

He is friendly to everyone and radiating energy and enthusiasm. He is fun to be around but it is getting old because he is not getting anything in return. The types of women he wants are not interested in him as a romantic partner. He chooses women that are very different in the theory that opposites attract.

Female experience:

She likes having him around because he brightens up her life and brings radiance and energy into it. His energy makes her feel good and makes her dream about mister right and what he might be like. Still he is not mister right and she has no intentions of getting romantically involved with her friend. It would never work because they are too different. They don't have anything in common.

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Symbol- His encounters with women bring him great joy and happiness. She is a working woman.

Meaning- movement

He is giving away his massive supply of emotional energy that he was given at birth. His casual encounters with women are enough at first. He likes to make women laugh and feel good because it makes him feel good too.

He enjoys life and dreaming. He is filled with a gentle love and sharing and his desires propel him forward. He is attractive to the opposite sex and they enjoy his company. He feels extremely sexual, emotional and radiant.

One person can't absorb all of the energy he is giving away and he enters a very social period in his life. He is intensely curious about women and wishes to experience all they have to offer. He has an instinctive awareness of the opposite sex with their needs and moods. He is exploring the female part of his own personality. His need is to be gentle, caring and supportive. He may have a religious experience and feel "born again".

At first she takes his emotional energy as fast as he can give it. She absorbs as much as she can and combines it with her normal supply of emotional energy to form astral emotional energy.

This type of astral energy is denser than mental or spiritual energy and will become physical reality before the other types of energy will. It is more condensed and lower on the astral planes. Therefore it seems less speculative and more real. There is much more substance to it and it feels real.

She creates potential future events with this energy and deposits it in the astral plane to become reality in time. These creations are far more realistic and substantial than anything she has astrally created before.

Her psychic abilities gain strength and her astral dream adventures take on a more sensory and emotional quality. She has an intense desire to know her true purpose in life so she can magickally create it in the astral planes.

She is overwhelmed with his large quantities of emotional energy. He seems so emotional to her, so buoyant and alive. She is a little intimidated and not truly comfortable. She needs great amounts of male energy but she can only handle so much at a time. Things are going too fast and she thinks she is falling behind and missing out in life. She is feeling life has passed her by and she is missing out on the good things. She is a working woman now and that is all she ever does, work, work, work.

Male experience:

He enjoys being around women and they enjoy being around him. He is filled with a gentle love and sharing that everyone enjoys. He is very curious about women and wishes to experience all they have to offer. When he makes them happy it makes him feel happy too. He gives away massive amounts of emotional energy to everybody.

Female experience:

She is tired of waiting for mister right. She absorbs the small quantities of emotional energy she can from him and wishes she could absorb more. He has much more than she can use. This concentrated astral energy creates the potential future she desires for both herself and for him.

She is frustrated with the small amount of emotional energy she has to work with. She wishes he would share all of it with her instead of giving it to everyone else. He doesn't spend enough time with her. He seems to be having so much fun and others like him so well. She feels life is passing her by and she can't hurry things at all.

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Symbol- With a glowing heart he searches for the Holy Grail. She is the ocean which all water must someday reach.

Meaning- union

Here the old fruit and seed are given to the earth in total sacrifice. The Magical planes merge together and embrace the seed in death. The seed is planted for an intended future growth.

This death marks the beginning of the eighth degree initiation and the end of the crucifixion. The initiate gives all freely and without thought of reward.

Out of the barrenness of his life spring comes. He knows he is capable of having a serious love relationship. All he needs is to find the right person. He feels vibrant and alive. He knows the perfect person exists and he knows he will find her even if it takes forever. He is mentally and emotionally prepared for a serious relationship.

He is sexually frustrated and feels anger and resentment when he can't find the right person. It seems she is always just out of reach like the mythical Holy Grail.

He is awakening his emotional energies and has so much love that he wants to share. He is overflowing with love and compassion for everyone. If he can't give his love to her he will give his love to the entire world.

As he searches for true love he spreads joy and peace to everyone he meets. He is well liked by all. He radiates good emotions that others enjoy.

She knows men want her but she is waiting for the right person. She wants a relationship badly but it has to be with the right person. None of the men that are interested in her are what she is looking for.

She is content to wait for him to come to her. Sooner or later he must come into her life. There is no hurry. She has no strong personal desires or drives. Except for him she has everything that she wants.

She feels happiness as her other wishes are fulfilled. She knows that someday her love wish will be fulfilled also. She has created the perfect mate in the astral planes. All that is left is to wait for it to happen. She spreads love and happiness around everyone she knows. Her emotional energy is beginning to awaken and she has so much of it!

Male experience:

He sets off on a search for perfect love. He knows she exists somewhere and he knows he will find her no matter how long it takes. His heart is bursting with the love he wants to share with her.

Spring is in his heart and he spreads joy and happiness as he searches for her. He is a comfort to those that know and love him.

Female experience:

She has astrally created the perfect mate and relationship in the astral plane. She knows that sometime, somewhere, he will come into her life. All she has to do is wait for him. He will come. She is the ocean that all water must someday return to.

She is happy and at peace with her life. She brings joy and peace to those that love her. She turns to enjoy those things that are within her reach and finds joy in the simple things in life.

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The Princess of Cups is related to other cards in the Tarot. She contains the essential elements of the Trump cards THE TOWER, THE STAR, and THE MOON. The Princess is also related to the SIX of CUPS, SIX of PENTACLES, SEVEN of CUPS, SEVEN of PENTACLES, EIGHT of CUPS and EIGHT of PENTACLES.

Her element is Water. Her power is Earth of Water.

She is a mysterious person and no one really knows much about her. She radiates an intense sexuality that almost overpowers others. They are powerfully attracted to her or repelled by her sexually. This presence is so strong that some can feel their heads swimming with a dizzy feeling if they get too close to her. She has extreme magical ability and is a natural born witch. She is able to easily raise the cone of power for magical workings. She is a formidable opponent in astral duels.

Her strength of will power and strength of spirit allow her to overcome all obstacles she may encounter. She has stamina and endurance almost beyond belief. She radiates this energy like a light bulb. She is a real live wire any where she goes. In a fight she goes into a berserker frenzy that may very well be dangerous to the other person. She totally flips out and lashes out in pure rage without knowing what she is doing.

She is very sensual and enjoys all the fine things and luxuries in life like silks and furs. Things that belong only to the very wealthy.

Astrally she is very active in the elemental regions that are the fairy realms of the nature spirits. These are above the fixed etheric realms that have a more physical aspect.

She suffers from some sort of chronic dull pain that makes her life more difficult than others would suspect. At these times it is a very good thing to just leave her alone because when she is hurting she is not a very pleasant person to be around.

She has true natural ability to affect change in the physical world by working magic in the astral planes.

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The Prince of Cups is related to other cards in the Tarot. He contains the elements of the Tarot Trump cards THE TOWER and THE STAR. The Prince is also related to the SIX of CUPS, SEVEN of CUPS, and EIGHT of CUPS. His Element is Water. His power is Water of Water.

He is strongly aware of his physical environment and of what is going on around him. Green is one of his favorite colors and he wears it when he can.

He has a strong aura and gives off energy that others can sense. He has a natural healing ability that he uses to heal and help others. He also has the strong ability to prevent negative astral events from becoming physical reality by transmuting those energies into more harmless energies.

This healing aspect is very strong and his physical body is resistant to any illness or injury. It also works as a type of armor against any psychic attacks. In all he is very well protected.

He is very loyal and honest to a fault. He will not be corrupted from what he feels is the right thing. Being true to his own convictions is the most important thing in his life.

Sometimes this works against him and he lets people take advantage of him. At times his happiness and pleasure are suddenly blocked and he feels trapped and helpless, perhaps even fearful. This happens when he lets others gain control of his life against and they try to force him into actions against his will.

He suffers occasionally a deep intense physical pain that is a result of damaged nerves. There is a deterioration of his nervous system that causes this pain.

He doesn't have the ability to astral project because he doesn't have the energy needed to sustain a permanent astral body. His energy is too easily lost or given away to others.

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The Queen of Cups is related to many of the cards in the Tarot. She contains the elements of the Tarot Trump cards THE TOWER and THE STAR. The Queen is also related to the SIX of SWORDS, SIX of CUPS, SEVEN of SWORDS, SEVEN of CUPS, EIGHT of SWORDS and EIGHT of CUPS.

Her Element is Water. Her power is Air of Water.

She has an interest in both ceramics and weaponry. She is adept at magic and is master of the cone of power of magnetic force. With it she can strongly attract or repel whom or what she wishes. She has an enormous amount of power at her disposal and has a magnetic personality that strongly attracts or repels others.

She has a strong awareness of her physical environment and what is going on around her. Still she is often prevented from doing what she wants through a lack of energy or decadent state where she would rather live with what she has than put out the effort to get something else. There is almost chronic depression and inactivity that is very hard for her to beak out of. If it is not effortless she is not interested in doing it.

She is a supreme master of communication, music, and song. These things are very important in her life as a patron of the arts. Much of her time is spent conforming with society's expectations and doing what others want her to do. She is often prevented from doing the things she would really like to do.

At times she suffers from severe pain that seems to come and go without any real physical cause and is not treatable. No one can do anything about the sharp stabbing pain that is not tolerable.

She lives out her destiny without any significant changes or alterations to it throughout her entire life. She is very aware of what role she is expected to play and does not deviate from that role if she can help it.

She is a medium and psychic. She can generate a luminous ectoplasm type substance and has encounters with ghosts and other spirits of the lower Magical planes. She also is prone to having vivid and lifelike astral visions. Sometimes it is hard to tell what is real and what is not real.

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The King of Cups is related to many other cards in the Tarot. He contains the essential elements of the Tarot Trump cards THE TOWER, THE STAR, and THE SUN. The King is also related to the SIX of WANDS, SIX of CUPS, SEVEN of WANDS, SEVEN of CUPS, EIGHT of WANDS, and EIGHT of CUPS. His Element is Water. His power is Fire of Water.

He has a strong awareness of the physical environment and is able to manipulate it easily. He has a strong emotional nature and is very powerful astrally. He may have a tendency to shut out those things he doesn't want to experience. He is a magician and on the astral has energy and power to spare. He can take or give energy equally and is able to manipulate the astral very easily to affect future events. His astral body is fully developed and very strong. He uses Magical power for both defense and offense.

His astral creations are very stable and strongly resist any efforts by others to change them. He has great stamina and endurance that he can tap into if he needs to.

He has a strong affinity with gold and enjoys wealth, luxury, and sexual pleasures. He can't seem to get enough of the beautiful things in life and that includes the opposite sex.

It is easy for him to make a good impression on others and they like him. However, he may just as easily change and present another aspect of himself to other people. He changes appearances to his best advantage. He spends much of his time day dreaming.

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posted by banjo at 6:02 PM

symbol- He must search for the perfect girl. She realizes she is desireable.

Meaning- realization


He decides to date one of his platonic girl friends. It seems kind of strange at first because he doesn't want to risk loosing her friendship. Still, he likes her and he would like to get to know her better.

He wants to find out if they could have a serious relationship together. While they have fun together, the relationship doesn't have the emotional spark or intensity he wants in a relationship.

It is like dating a sister or a cousin. It just doesn't feel right to get emotionally involved with her. This is very frustrating because he is selective about whom he wants to date and there are not too many girls around that are acceptable to him.

She is surprised when he asks her out and she is a little nervous too. She likes him and doesn't want to hurt him. She knows that she would like to date someone but he is more like a brother than a date.

The whole thing seems a little awkward and uncomfortable. She enjoys the dating but her feelings toward him are too relaxed and casual. It just doesn't have the spark she wants in a serious relationship.

They talk things over and realize they are not really interested in each other romantically. It is still important that they be friends and get together socially but that is all.

This is an important time for him because he begins to understand what kind of girl he is attracted to. He gains an ability to recognize girls that are more suitable to him personally. Someone he has things in common with and shared interests.

This is an important time for her because she realizes her male friends are attracted to her. They do think she is likable and special. It gives her renewed self-esteem and hope that she will find that special someone.

As she dates others they both learn how to have healthy relationships with each other. They get to know each other before they decide what they will do.

Male experience:

He begins to date some of his platonic friends. While he has a good time it just doesn't work out as he would like. It is like dating his sister. There is no spark.

He does learn what type of women he is attracted to and becomes more selective in whom he dates. He wants to date someone he is comfortable with but he wants spark and passion too. He maintains his platonic friendships.

Female experience:

She is a little nervous about dating her friend. She likes him but not in that way. He is like a brother to her. Still she decides to give it a try and see how it goes. It is strange. There is no spark or passion and the dating doesn't last long but the friendship remains.

This is an important time for her because she learns that someone she likes and respects as a friend is attracted to her. It is possible for her to have a healthy relationship with someone of the opposite sex. She realizes that she is desireable and that someday she might find mister right.

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Symbol- He must become worthy of her. She wants to become worthy of him

Meaning- He gives her the key

He has benefited from his platonic friendships with other females. He has learned to be relaxed and comfortable around them and learned some of the things they are interested in.

He learns what they are attracted to in a man and can use that knowledge to make himself more attractive to the opposite sex. He is beginning to understand what a healthy relationship would be like.

He wishes that one of his platonic friendships would become more sexual in nature but it doesn't. This creates a slight tension in his friendships that he doesn't really know how to deal with. He would like a more serious relationship with her but she is content with things just the way they are. They are good friends and that is enough.

To her relationships have always been a roller coaster ride. At first she was on the top of the world and felt like a real queen. Everyone treated her so nice and did things for her. She actually began to believe she was as good as her dates said she was. She began to take advantage of them and abuse the relationship.

Later she took men away from other girls and fought to date the most popular men. Then these men began to dump her and she was left alone with no one interested in her.

It was all so intense and so uncontrolled. She enjoys her conversations with her platonic male friends. They are casual and relaxed. She can be her self and say what she really feels without worrying about others getting the wrong idea about her.

These platonic relationships have a stability and comfort she enjoys. Earlier she would have thought them boring. She is beginning to look for stability and comfort in her relationships.

The popular men that always have to be the center of attention now annoy her. They all seem so fake and shallow. She is looking for someone with real inner strength and a strong sense of self.

Male experience:

He enjoys his platonic friendships with other females. He is able to feel relaxed and comfortable around them. He is starting to understand the opposite sex and what they like in a man. He is able to make himself more attractive to them and is well liked.

He is somewhat frustrated because he would like a more sexual relationship but his female friends are not really interested in serious relationships right now, at least not with him. They would rather have him as a friend than as a romantic interest.



Female experience:

Her new platonic male friends are real comforting to be around after the stresses of more serious relationships. She likes the stability and the relaxed atmosphere. After so much excitement it feels good to just slow down for a while and feel comfortable around males.

She learns a lot by just being friends. Maybe men are not really the jerks she thinks they are. At least, maybe some of them are not jerks. She is drawn to the more quiet types that have a strong inner strength and a depth that her other dates didn't have. These men are not trying to get in her pants all the time. They actually are interested in what she thinks and in what she has to say.

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  symbol- He must have more female mental energy. She must have more male mental energy.

Meaning- join forces


He must have more female energy to gain the realistic global perspective he needs to achieve his goals. Her energy helps him to see more clearly.

At the time she created her own astral future she created his potential future too. He has been locked into stereotyped roles that both she and society demand he act out.

He has been trapped by how society perceives him and can't achieve his own goals. He can only achieve socially approved goals.

By absorbing more of her energy he can take that pure energy into the astral in dreams and change his future. He does this by absorbing the negative aspects into his body and replacing them with pure energy.

This is a cut and paste operation and very time consuming. It also requires tremendous amounts of energy because he is trying to alter society's expectations of him. The best he can do is to achieve his goals by following socially approved routes such as job training and work experience. He is forced to compromise.

To get more energy he socializes with other females. He has female friends he can talk to and socialize with. Dating is not important to him at this time. He is learning to conform to societies' demands and society gradually rewards him for his efforts.

She isn't dating anyone now and it is a refreshing change of pace. She is transmuting sexual energy into mental energy fairly easily and needs some male energy to combine with it. With the combined energy she can create a new future for herself that is more complete and carefully thought out than her last try.

Her best bet is to find males that can easily generate mental energy just as she can. She is looking for platonic friendships and not for romantic attachments.

Both of them are just looking for someone easy to talk to and someone that is just a friend. Conversations become more meaningful than dating does. The energy flows easily between them and many good conversations are the result.

They both learn a lot about the opposite sex and about relationships in general. This is an easy, relaxed time for both of them and pleasant in an easy going way.

Male experience:

He is freely generating mental energy now and requires a large quantity of female energy to combine with it. He is using this combined energy to alter how society perceives him. He is conforming to the rules of society in his efforts toward achieving his personal goals.

He socializes with females and becomes platonic friends with them. He is more interested in good conversation than he is in a relationship. He is relaxed around them and enjoys himself.

Female experience:

She is freely generating mental energy now and requires a large amount of male energy to combine with her own to produce astral energy. She uses this energy to create new futures for herself that are more realistic than her first efforts. She is not very interested in social roles or what society expects of her and is still in this respect a rebel.

She enjoys good conversations with males and develops platonic friendships. She is not really interested in romantic relationships. She enjoys talking to males with radical points of view that differ from the norm. She tends to be a political activist.

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symbol- He is a wimp. She is a shrew

Meaning- Loss of innocence

As his personality and sense of self become more developed his behavior changes. Instead of acting out social roles like the football star, the cowboy, the rebel, or even the nerd, he begins to act as himself.

Just being himself is very gratifying and he isn't trying to prove anything to anyone. People can take him or leave him just as he is. He has found a source of inner strength within that no one can take from him.

He doesn't really stand out from the crowd anymore. In fact, he kind of blends into the background most of the time. If circumstances demand he will take command in an emergency but he prefers to let others have the spotlight. He feels no need to be the life of the party anymore or the center of attention.

She doesn't understand or even recognize his newfound inner strength. All she knows is that he isn't the big man and center of attention he used to be. He has become a wimp in her eyes and she despises what she sees as weakness in him.

She is ruled by her emotions at this point but beginning to transmute sexual energy into mental energy. She is beginning to realize she has been used and discarded.

This awareness brings resentments and she is quick to voice her accusations. She becomes a real shrew. She is developing a bad attitude toward men and they are beginning to avoid her. They would much rather be with more sweet tempered females. This avoidance makes her even angrier. She wants to have fun but no one can stand to be around her much less to date her.

She fights to retain her place in the limelight. She attacks those that are now the popular ones and tries to undermine their popularity. This is a loosing battle because people would rather be around positive individuals than be around negative individuals and she has become quite negative.

Male experience:

He has found a source of inner strength and sense of self. He doesn't have to prove anything to anyone any more and blends into the background. He wants to find his true path in life and start his life's work. He is ready to get on with life and leave childish games behind.

He quietly and without fan fare begins working to achieve his goals in life regardless of what others think or say. He is committing himself to a major course of action.

Female experience:

She wants to enjoy the limelight and be the center of attention but that is behind her now. The popular dream date has dumped her for someone else. Where she used to take men away from other girls, now they take her men away from her.

The popular guys are not interested in her anymore. They think she is turning into a shrew and not fun to be around. She is beginning to develop a bad attitude toward men. She thinks they are all wimps because they can't stand up to the force of her personality.

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symbol- He travels astrally to her in dreams and takes her energy. She uses her body and sexuality to get what she wants from others.

Meaning- exploitation


By this time he has a fully developed ego and personality. He has a strong sense of who he is. The pure mental energy he has received from her combined with his own form a permanent aura.

He has learned how to control this astral energy and project it outside his body at will. This is not astral projection but mind projection. His awareness of the world is growing rapidly. He wants to understand more so he can achieve his goals in life.

His awareness can only grow by combining his energy with female energy to create controllable astral energy. He needs more female energy and is limited in whom he can get it from. He can get this energy from a female that has given him mental energy in the past. This earlier exchange of energy normally comes from someone he has dated or had a relationship with in the past.

It is possible he will have an astral encounter with someone he has never met before but this is rare. He is able to travel to her in dreams and take mental energy away from her. He dreams of her and gets energy from this dreaming.

She is helpless to prevent this. She has no ready supply of mental energy available. These unwelcome dreams are a form of psychic attack and draw very emotional responses from her as she is forced to transmute sexual and emotional energy into mental energy to replace energy he has taken.

She must replace this mental energy if she wants to keep her sanity. Otherwise she would be completely ruled by her emotions. It is not easy for her to transmute sexual energy into mental energy unless she is forced to do it.

Later she will be able to do this easily and protect herself from these attacks but she can't do this yet. For now emotions and sexual repressions she has long blocked are preventing her sexual energies from being transmuted. These repressed areas must be brought to awareness and he is helping her in this by his visits. There is much she can learn about herself from her nightmares and bad dreams.

Male experience:

His ego and sense of self are well developed and he is able to mentally project his awareness outside his body. For example, he is able to read a book and be so caught up in it that he has no awareness of what is going on around him.

Her energy helps to strengthen this ability and he travels to her in dreams and forcibly takes mental energy from her. His personality and ego are growing stronger all of the time.

Female experience:

He comes to her at night in threatening and frightening dreams. As he takes energy from her she feels repressed fears and anxieties trying to surface. These fears and anxieties must surface before she can transmute sexual energy into mental energy to replace the energy he has forcibly taken from her.

This is a time of emotional turmoil for her and she may fear physical abuse from those she has earlier rejected. She looses the ability to be objective about things and begins to react emotionally to things instead.

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symbol- His desire draws her astral body to him in dreams and traps it. She needs greater and greater thrills and excitement to keep away boredom.


Meaning- entrapment


There is forced growth as the plant struggles to grow to full size. The Spirit planes bestow a great vision and hope to the initiate. The ashes of the initiate's past are dissolved into a growing pool of love and light energy. The initiate learns to master the emotions and love energy. The initiate is more determined than ever to succeed in his or her Quest. He or she does not care how long the journey or how difficult the road. The initiate will travel it.

He accepts they will never get back together again. Still, she has been the most important thing in his life and he thinks about her a lot. He still desires her and there is still an astral and emotional connection between them.

His desire for her is able to attract the remaining mental energy she has. She comes to him in dreams and he receives energy from her astral form. He becomes an energy vampire.

It is unlikely that she has any awareness of these astral encounters because it involves energy she is trying to get rid of anyway.

These dreams of her coming to him and giving him energy are very confusing for him because it seems that maybe she does love him after all. He may even ask her out again and be rejected again. He doesn't realize his desire is drawing her energy to him in dreams without her consent or knowledge.

He is generating more of his own mental energy and creating a need for more female energy to balance it. This new mental energy allows him to escape the emotional pain he previously was experiencing. She is an available source because she has shared this type of energy with him before and they remain linked. She is compelled to give up her mental energy to him.

As her energy combines with his it forms a creative astral energy he uses to develop his ego and his personal view of the world. He is learning from his experiences with her. He is becoming more worldly and more of an individual. His soul grows with this new mixed energy.

She is not aware of giving up mental energies because she doesn't bother to think about things any more. She wants to enjoy and live life, not think about it! Thinking is too painful because it brings up things she would rather forget.

She will do anything regardless of consequences and get away with it. She does as she pleases. She creates her future karmic load and binds herself in karmic chains. She is careless about the loss of her mental energies and seeks only new thrills and hedonistic pleasures.

Earlier she created astrally the life she wanted to live out of mental energy and deposited this energy into the astral planes. Now she thinks she is living that dream life but she really isn't. What she is doing is using up her safety reserves of creative energy.

All too soon her fantasy life will end. Her dream fantasy life is only a short term thing. She built for the short term and will have nothing left for the long term until she learns how to transmute her sexual energy into higher forms of energy. Until then she is at the mercy of everyone else capable of using these higher energies against her.

Male experience:

As his mental understanding of his relationship with her develops he gains a deep understanding of cause and effect. He understands that some occurrences are the result of many small causes and not one big one. Moral codes are imposed by man and not by God. Things are a more complex than he was led to believe. He confronts the mess he made out of things and begins to free himself. He understands the opposite sex and her rejection of him.

He still loves her and she is in his thoughts but he doesn't pursue her anymore. She comes to him in his dreams and gives him the energy he craves. He is content with this.

Female experience:

She wants to live life to the fullest and seeks greater thrills. She will do anything regardless of consequences and gets away with it. Moral values mean nothing to her and she creates her karmic load and burdens that she must bear in the future. She is burning bridges.

She could care less about the loss of her mental energies. She is a being of emotions and sensuality and is careless of what she does. She is living completely in the moment, experiencing physical life in its entirety and it is incredible.

She looses mental energy through astral dream experiences of an emotional and sexual nature.

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symbol- He tries to seduce her with his pain. She tries to seduce others to her

Meaning-seduction.

In a burst of love and light the seed bursts apart and begins to grow toward the surface of the earth. This sprouting brings the rapid growth and rebirth that had been promised with the planting of the seed.

While the relationship is over he hopes she will change her mind and come back to him. He has no interest in anyone else at this point. He keeps track of her and knows whom she is dating. He watches in agony as she has fun with someone else.

It is tearing him up and he feels as if something inside is dying. He can't take the pain any more and he tells her how much he is suffering and how much he needs her to come back to him. He is starting to transmute mental energy into emotional energy and it hurts. He is putting words to his feelings.

He is not receiving much of her excess mental energy any more and his ego is suffering. Without her he is nothing. What he is needs is her emotional energy instead.


She listens to him but her excess mental energy is more than he can absorb and in fact, she thinks he is pathetic and glad she broke up with him. She is not interested in his problems. If he was a real man he would take care of them by himself.

In fact, she has a real man in mind. It will be a real challenge because all the other girls want him too. But won't they be envious when they see her with him! It will be great! First she will have to take him away from this other girl though. That shouldn't be too hard.

She cold bloodedly chooses the man she wants and does what she has to do to get him away from his girlfriend. It is more exciting to take males away from other females than it is to stay in a relationship that quickly gets stale. She can do this because mental energy rules her actions and she doesn't feel emotional remorse at this point. She is intellectual and calculating.

It makes her feel strong and important to win someone away from another female. After winning his heart she dumps him for someone even more glamorous.

He finally accepts that the relationship will never be renewed. His heart and ego have both been badly bruised or broken. Relationships with the opposite sex are like poking a raw wound. He has had enough.

From now on he will do the dumping and the using. Either that or he will avoid females completely. Now it is his turn to dump her.

The mental energy is stuck at the heart area causing pain and congestion for him. In time as he learns to transmute this energy it will go lower and become a dull emotional ache.

She is intellectual and calculating in getting the things that she desires out of her relationships. When she is finally dumped it is devastating and uses up all of her excess mental energy and she is plunged into her emotions.

Male experience:

After they breakup he feels incredible pain as if his heart has a knife thrust through it. He takes it as long as he can before going back to her and begging her to come back. The pain is so bad. He needs her. He can't live without her. He is generating emotional energy.

In time the pain becomes a dull emotional ache and he is determined to never feel that type of pain again. He becomes insensitive or immune to it and begins to take relationships more lightly. This time he will be the one to break it off.

Female experience:

After several successes she finally gets dumped. She is devastated. She feels that everyone is laughing at her. He used her! She was just a toy or ornament to him. He didn't care for her at all. All of her old fears and insecurities come back with a vengeance. This time she has made enemies and no one is feeling sorry for her at all. They feel she is getting what she deserves.

It is time for her to transmute her sexual energy into mental energy and think about what is going on in her life. If she doesn't do this things will get worse for her. She will react emotionally to those around her and drive them even further away.

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symbol- He is on his knees pleading to her. She is dancing with someone else

Meaning- attraction

The seed begins to swell and expand and the internal pressure builds to intolerable levels. The seed threatens to burst in its agony. This is a burning to ashes of all that is impure. The initiate is consumed in the fire of passion that is burning away all of the dross and leaving only the true self.

She has given him as much of her excess mental energy as he is able to absorb. He is saturated with her energy and is using it to develop his ego and sense of self.

She is also developing her ego and sense of self by actively giving up her energy and combining it with his. As in all male-female energy exchanges at first she is active in the creative process.

In fact she dominates the energy exchange by having an excess of readily available energy. She absorbs his mental energy into her physical body and at night she deposits the combined astral energy into the mental levels of the astral planes.

In the astral she creates her mental image of herself and her sense of self. She also creates the mental image or stereotyped role that he is seen as by others.

He has little control over how others perceive him at this point. When she is satisfied with the image of herself that she has created, she gives him the excess energy to store in his body.

As he receives this mental energy he uses it to create an ego and sense of self that is uniquely his. He wants to discover who he really is. As he develops his ego and sense of self he is able to generate more mental energy and to absorb more female energy. He is not satisfied with the way that others perceive him.

He is building energy channels for this type of energy within his body and his personality becomes more powerful. This energy is denser than the abstract/spiritual energy he has already mastered. This energy becomes trapped in his physical body as mental head energy or pure ego.

When she gets bored with him and wants to date others that are more exciting it is very hard on his ego. He knows he is not perfect but neither is she. He is willing to overlook her faults if she will overlook his.

She is not interested because they are no longer interested in the same things. She has already formed her ego and sense of self just the way she wants it. She is confident and sure of herself. She wants out. She feels trapped in the relationship.

She wants to go out with someone more popular. Someone that will raise her social status. Her ego is dependent upon the social popularity of whom she is dating. If she can date a real hunk it would boost her ego tremendously.

When she tries to break up with him it is really traumatic. He won't let her end the relationship. His ego is dependent upon keeping it. Her ego is dependent on ending the relationship. They quarrel bitterly. He doesn't win or get his way. He can't force her to stay in a relationship she doesn't want. All his efforts to keep her end in a vicious circle where she doesn't want anything to do with him.

Male experience:

He knows he is not perfect but he is still worth having. When she tries to end the relationship he resists and won't let her. He needs her. He can't understand why she would want to leave him. He is just beginning to feel good about himself.

In the end he must let her go. No one can hold another in a relationship they don't want to be in. He has to let her go no matter how much he needs her.

Female experience:

At first she was happy with him but as she gained confidence and became more sure of herself she realized she could do better than him. She was good enough and attractive enough to get a real hunk! She feels trapped in her current relationship and wants out.

In the end she must leave him and go after the popular male competing with other females for his attentions. Win or loose it is important she goes after whom she truly wants. She must feel that she does deserve the best in life.

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symbol- they date, he is awkward and uncomfortable. She flirts with him.


Meaning- union.

The Ace of Swords represents mental energy and conscous awareness of the opposite sex.

This marks the beginning of social dating. He has learned to not push for a more serious relationship and tries to be content with enjoying social activities together. He learns to relax and enjoy the moments for what they really are, shared time together.

She has learned he is a person with feelings that can easily be hurt. She spends more time getting to know the real person he is. She is more willing to stay in a relationship than she was before. She is ready to give this one an honest try.

This is an explosive mix as he tries to keep the relationship on a social level that is safe for them both. He has already been hurt and is not keen on being hurt again.

Her efforts to get to know him are very intimate and personal. She doesn't want to know his dreams and goals as much as she wants to know who he really is, his good points and bad points.

She also wants to know how he feels about her and if she is sexually attractive to him.

The first idealism of youth is gone and both are looking at the relationship from a more practical perspective. Now they are exchanging mental energy instead of spiritual energy.

He generates mental energy by transmuting spiritual energy. It is time for turning his spiritual and idealistic goals into reality. This is harder than it seems because reality and altruistic goals do not often come together smoothly.

As he begins to exchange mental energy with her they talk about life and its restrictions. Together they exchange views on what is acceptable and what is not acceptable. The merging of his male energy and her female energy brings these issues into sharp focus. The interaction between them helps both to become clear on what they believe.

They learn about what is expected of them and what they expect of each other. They try to compromise between what they want out of life and what society wants out of them. They are frustrated, why can't they have the type of life they want to have? Why does life seem so unfair? Why are there so many obstacles placed in their way?

She has an excess of readily available energy from birth and he can only generate small amounts at a time. While he is trying to understand the socially acceptable thing he must do, She has jumped ahead of him and decided that society is a restrictive force to be rebelled against.


Male experience:

He determines to take control of his life and fulfill his dreams. With an act of will and courage he begins dating again. This is a time for fun and not for a serious relationship. He learns quickly that certain behaviors are acceptable and others are not.

He learns there are consequences to his actions and he must act responsibly in life. He has to do the socially acceptable thing if he is going to succeed. He must do it by the book.


Female experience:

She is interested in him as a person and begins dating him. She is carefree and rebels against the socially acceptable. She likes to toy and flirt and see what she can get away with. She wants to explore sensual pleasures and enjoys pulling his strings.

She feels confined by social roles that tell her what she can and can't do. Instinctively she understands she must do her own thing to be totally free. She is looking for excitement. She enjoys her time with him exploring the bounds of forbidden behavior.

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